A Lesson In Leaving — Delilah’s Dilemma

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Not knowing your true feelings about a situation, especially in a relationship, can lead to an unpleasant ending.

In the case of a loyal listener of Delilah, she learned the hard way when it came to figuring out her true feelings about an ex-boyfriend.

Dear Delilah,
My ex-boyfriend once called pouring out his heart to you -- we were dating at that time. I didn't know then how much I loved him, so I left him for another man. As months went by I realized the mistakes I made, so I left the other guy and went back to my boyfriend. He forgave me but things were not the same between us. Now we've separated for no reason. I have no contact with him and I miss him. I love him and he knows that because I told him. I apologized for hurting him and now that he's gone I don't know what to do without him. What should I do? Mercedes
Dear Mercedes,
Learn from your mistakes and move on. If God intends for you to be with your ex-boyfriend, it will happen in His time. Even though you say your ex forgave you, it appears his wounds hadn't healed yet. So you need to move on with your life, get involved in activities, be with your girlfriends and start taking care of you. Don't go looking for the next relationship; focus on you. Give your ex-boyfriend's heart some time to heal and if it's meant to work out, it will work out in time. Delilah

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