Stop Kissing Frogs — Delilah’s Reflections
Ever have trouble trying to find the right guy but having to go through the many frogs before him?
Delilah explains that if you’re chasing after someone for attention and love and they’re not giving you back 100 percent, then you’re probably wasting your time.
I posted a quote on my Facebook page that read: If you could love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you could love the right one. One of my listeners commented that she had to kiss a lot of frogs before she found her prince. And another listener said the difference between the wrong and right person is how much they love you in return.
There’s no easy way to put it – if someone you love isn’t reciprocating your words and actions, you’re loving on a big, fat toad! If you feel like you’re constantly chasing after someone for their attention, approval and love, then you’re probably wasting a lot of energy on a relationship that won’t last – be it a romance or even a friendship.
When someone is truly in love with you, you will know it. There’s no guessing involved in true love, other than perhaps the fun, flirtatious stuff that happens early on. Don’t chase after someone who isn’t giving you 100 percent, and run the other way from someone who gives you more heartache than heart flutters.
Something to think about as you encounter the important people in your life this week…
Have YOU ever been stuck with the wrong frog for too long? Share by commenting below!
Rachel Specht contributed to this post