Men spend an awful lot of time trying to figure out woman, and vice versa.  Here are some basic things that most men wish women knew about us.

Men like it when women make the first move.  No, really, we do.

It's OK to play hard to get.  We like a challenge.  Just don't play too hard because we have a small attention span.

We cannot read minds.  If you're unhappy or something is bothering you, please tell us.

Men are more sensitive about the way we look than you think.  Just like you don't want us to tell you that your dress makes you look big, we don't want to hear that we are losing our hair or that we have a gut.  We know, and we are doing the best we can.

Excessive drama about communication can push us away. Sometimes we call ot text, but other times, we just have stuff going on. Don't get upset if you are not priority no. 1 every time you text or call us.

Saying "I love you" is a big step for us. Please don't push it. When we're ready, we're ready.

It means something when we introduce you to our friends. Trust me, won't don't give that intro to just any random girl.  That's a big step for us, too.